How it works
- To begin. Every conversation starts with the same card: What do I hope this conversation gives us?
- Three parts, one after another. With myself. With you. With life. Draw three or four cards from each, or as many as you like.
- Write, then share. You both answer the same question. A few quiet minutes on paper first, then you talk.
- To close. Every conversation ends with the same card: What am I glad we said out loud?
A card from each part
- Part One · With Myself What am I proud of that nobody knows about?
- Part Two · With You Where did I lean on you in the past year more than you knew?
- Part Three · With Life In the year ahead, what am I no longer willing to rush?
For whom
For anyone who shared some of your year.
For couples, siblings, friends, parents and children, or simply anyone who wants to talk about the past year together.
The second part is the most personal. You decide how deep it goes, and you may put any card back.
What you get
- 38 cards: 36 questions, plus an opening and a closing card
- An interactive deck that runs in your browser, on your phone, tablet or laptop
- In English and German
- Shuffled fresh every time, with the cards you haven’t drawn yet on top
- Your link to the deck by email, right after purchase
- Access for at least five years from your purchase
Questions
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Do I need an app?
No. The deck opens in your browser.
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Is it only for the end of the year?
No. The questions look back at the past twelve months, so it works any time of year. A birthday, an anniversary, a Sunday.
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Can we use it more than once?
Yes. On the same device, the deck shows you the cards you haven’t drawn yet first. After you’ve used the deck once, you can also see all cards at once.
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How long does a conversation take?
About an hour, sometimes longer. That’s up to you.